Never... a man who is not baptized can't have a ceremony in church.It's against the doctrine. Either of them should be Christian.If I don't get baptized, I don't want to. Your parents said you are a church member, but you don't know that either? Oh, my God.Your faith seems to be in vain. Tell him to find out.We're not church ceremonies, we're asking you to officiate, but you're still very picky.ᅲᅲᅲ